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I have a dating website I filter the contact details in the email by using word filter, but after the member does the payment I would like them to send emails without the word filter, How can i do this ? Can any one help it ?

Hi, I am having a dating website I am trying to use pre written messages from one member to another instead of sending emails can any one help me in the coding ? A member can just send Pre written messages like : Hi, How are you ? I like your profile, I am intrested in you can you upgrade and send me messages ? Is it possible ?

The flow is : I extract the date from the db, lets say I have 4 data n each data has its own checkbox I can tick the check box and save the ticked box in db. can any one help me with his pls