[Parameter to a script]

I need to execute a php script in a console. And i need to pass it a parameter. If it was a web page i know it would be something like
[code]
asd.php?parameter="asd"
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But this wont work in console.
Anyone know how to do this

[Connecting to a remote mysql server]

well i did a ngrep on the port 3306 and here is what i got :
[code]
ngrep -W byline 3306
interface: eth0 (XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX/XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX)
match: 3306
#########################################################################
#########################################################################
#########################################################################
#########################################################################
#########################################################################
#########################################################################
#########################################################################
exit
98549 received, 0 dropped
localhost ~ #
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Anyway i dont understand my server is not behind any firewall or any router ...

[Connecting to a remote mysql server]

no

[Connecting to a remote mysql server]

Hello everyone,
My problem is:
I have a remote mysql server and i cant connect to it . I granted all privilege to root from my ip address (i have a static one) and still when i try to conect to my server i still have the message
ERROR 2003 (HY000): Can't connect to MySQL server on (XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX)

Here is what i did :
[code]
mysql>GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO root@XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX IDENTIFIED BY "**********";
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and on my local machine
[code]
localhost ~ # mysql --host=XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX --pass
Enter password:
ERROR 2003 (HY000): Can't connect to MySQL server on 'XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX' (111)
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Anyone can point me where i did my error?
Thank you!