Definitely C++ is the way real programmers go.
The so-called "easyness" of other languages comes with the price of being less versatile, and the truth is that the basic part of C++ which allows you to do what you do in other languages is as easy to learn as any other programming language. With the addition that you can go to the complicated stuff later on.
In fact, the application you are using to read this was probably coded in C++, as most professional applications. Although I have to agree that most books teaching C++ are plenty of abstract stuff programmers don't need. Go with straight-to-the-point tutorials:
A nice tutorial to start can be found at http://www.cplusplus.com/doc/tutorial
and a good and sort tutorial about stl can be found at http://www.decompile.com/html/tut.html