Supposing that all words end with a comma and start with a space you can get all rows that have a practicular word in them like so:
$result = mysql_query("SELECT id, asset_lightboxes FROM table WHERE asset_lightboxes LIKE '% planes,%'";
Then you can loop through each of them, replace " planes," with "", and update
while($r = mysql_fetch_row($r)){
$r['asset_lightboxes'] = str_replace(" planes,", '', $r['asset_lightboxes']);
mysql_query("UPDATE table SET asset_lightboxes = '".$r['asset_lightboxes']."' WHERE id =".$r['id']);
}
Or you can join all update queries to a giant string with ; at the end of each and update them all at once, but that depends on your server.
Hope I helped you.