Christian, thanks for responding;
your response is helpful.
I am trying to create the scenario, so I made 2 php files, iframe__parent.php and iframe__child.php
// iframe__parent.php
<?php $_REQUEST[ "signed_request" ] = "blah" ; ?>
...
<iframe src = "iframe__child.php"> </iframe>
...
// iframe__child.php
<?php print_( isset( $_REQUEST[ "signed_request" ] ) ) ; ?>
// ..... returns false
so although I understand that it is possible (otherwise how would facebook do it, right?), but how?
thanks for your time,
Shannon