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GF of 5 years cheated and broke up with me


scootstah

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I apologize if this is inappropriate or not suited to this board. I just need to vent. My head is spinning and I can't make sense of anything.

 

Last night at midnight, my girlfriend of 5 years and mother of my beautiful 2 year old daughter confessed to me that she cheated on me, and wanted to end our relationship. She claims she was unhappy for a long time, even though that absolutely did not seem to be the case. From everyone else's perspective we were a perfect couple. Very very strong chemistry and bond. We never fought, rarely had arguments, and were just an all-around happy couple. Or so I thought, anyway.

 

I did not see any signs of her unhappiness, nor did anyone else. Nor did she communicate anything. The person that I have grown with for 5 years is not the person that spoke to me last night. I do not know what happened, and she cannot tell me. She is completely unwilling to try to save our relationship, even for our child's sake. I do not understand how a person that I have been in the presence of every single day for 5 years can just up and leave everything behind in a split second, without even thinking twice.

 

I am an emotional train wreck. I ball my eyes out at the slightest memory of our happiness. I cannot stand to think of waking up every morning without her by my side. I will never in my life love someone as much as I love her. My heart is absolutely destroyed.

 

Sorry guys. I just need a vent. I don't know what to do.

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Sorry to hear that, is a rough thing for sure.

 

People change and sometimes do what they want and have no control over it.

One day she may regret it and try to get together again, you may even forgive her.

 

Some confuse different and new as being better and end up realizing they already had the best.

 

You have your daughter that can pass all that love onto, be strong for her.

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Thanks.

 

I feel so sorry and sad for my daughter. She's the most precious little thing in the world and doesn't deserve this. She was born 6 weeks premature with complications and had to stay in the NICU for almost a month. It would be so much easier if there wasn't a kid involved.

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Sorry to hear that scootstah, that's terrible. Have you tried contacting her friends or family to see if you can figure out what's going on?

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